We want to get an uncontested divorce as quickly as possible because I’m moving overseas for work. I don’t want to have to come back to Oklahoma City for a divorce hearing. We want to file for the divorce together and have my wife handle everything in court. We agree on all of our marital issues except for what to do about my retirement account. I put a lot of money into my retirement before my wife and I got married. I want to keep it but she wants part of it. We are discussing it, but not getting anywhere. Will a court let us file for an uncontested divorce together and deal with the retirement separately? My wife is willing to go into court and tell a judge she’s willing to get a divorce now so I can move.

My ex and I have two sons, age 8 and 10, and we share custody of them. My ex has remarried and now has a stepdaughter. My oldest son says he’s seen his dad do things with the daughter that don’t seem right. What he’s describing to me sounds like sexual abuse. My ex has never hurt my two boys, but I don’t want them around this behavior. My oldest doesn’t want to go over there anymore since he told me. I want to report what my son told me to child protective services but I don’t want my ex to find out that my son shared this information. Can I keep my name and my son’s name confidential if I report it and can I get custody of my boys even if their dad isn’t abusing them directly?